By Steve Moran

I stumbled onto this post in an activities director Facebook group, and I can’t figure out which emotion is stronger:

  • Pissed off
  • Broken-hearted
  • Incredulous

This post and the 38 comments that followed are a horrible indictment of the senior living industry — or at least a significant segment of it — and those who manage and own these communities.

5 Ridiculous Things That Should Outrage

Five things about this situation should drive every senior living professional absolutely crazy:

  1. It’s massively unfair and insulting to life enrichment directors. These are trained professionals being forced to operate like charity cases.
  2. It sets up directors for inevitable failure. How can anyone create meaningful experiences with pocket change?
  3. It’s insulting to residents. Management is essentially telling residents, “You’re not worth investing in.”
  4. It makes our entire industry look amateur. We claim to be hospitality-focused, then nickel-and-dime the very programs that define resident experience.
  5. This isn’t an isolated incident. The comments reveal that this budget starvation is disturbingly common across the industry.

The Comments Revealed Something Even Worse

What bothered me more than the original post were the responses. Comment after comment offered “creative solutions”:

  • Tap into Facebook “Buy Nothing” groups
  • Beg vendors for donations
  • Invite school musicians to perform for free
  • Organize fundraisers

These well-meaning suggestions prove that starvation budgets for life enrichment have become the norm, not the exception.

The Brutal Reality Check

If senior living is truly about creating exceptional experiences for residents, we need to start treating life enrichment directors like the professionals they are. That means giving them real budgets to create real experiences.

When we force directors to scrounge for supplies and beg for freebies, we’re not being resourceful — we’re being cheap. And our residents deserve better than our leftovers.